Thursday, 15 April 2010

whiner! whiner!

I had mini realisation.
Life is tough. Right now it's fucking hard.
I am exhausted everyday.

When I leave school and have to get a job it is not going to get any easier. I keep waiting for life to be just easy and simple and effortless. But it ain't gonna happen. I just have to step it up. Stop whining and just do it.


Katie J said...

You are absolutely right! It does not get any easier and unless you want to become like me and waste almost half my life figuring it out you will get tough - be strong and embrace life. Yes, it does require effort, yes it is no picnic but you will be way ahead if you just keep that in the back of your mind.

Once you start achieving successes though you can build on those and guide yourself to be the beautiful young woman you are.

I have faith in you Missus and I know a lot of us here do!

anne h said...

You think today is hard, wait till you see what tomorrow brings! More fucking shit.
So yeah, it's pretty much like what Katie says.
The fucking rainbow and unicorns aren't forthcoming. So it's good to get a second plan onboard.
The trick is, it's EASY to fall for the trick, and you won't know it until you're deeply involved!
Plan now and learn to trust and love your precious self. Not in a selfish way - that's not love!
But in a wholesome way! Kind and gentle.
I also have faith in you. And I like it when someone says "Missus!"

TJ said...

wait so no rainbows and unicorns? LOL @ anne h

:) Hang in there my friend!! All of your hard work will pay off!

Girlie said...

It's so hard. I feel like I don't have enough time or energy in the day for everything. But we just gotta keep trucking.

M Pax said...

Hey, Sheeps. Yeah, it never gets any easier. We go from one thing to the next, piling it on.

Where you can make it easier is by steering all that time and effort toward a life that makes you happy. Fill your spirit and you will find the rest a bit easier.

Jus' sayin'. :D Hang in there. You're going to do great and you're going to be fine.

Hugs <3 <- I learned that from you

Terri said...

That's right! I find myself whining all the time and then I realize, life happens and all I'm doing is whining about it. It's up to us to do something and make a change, right?

Debby said...

Whining is fine if it's what gets you through the day. Life is what you make it. Yep, it sucks at times...that's when I focus on something that doesn't suck. It's easy to find the negative in situations and that's why we do it often I think. I have decided to always find a positive. When something shits on my parade, I really do force myself to find a positive. The sun on my face, a cloud, a kids smile, whatever it takes. I get so pissed sometimes as I'm only 50, yes I said ONLY, and my freaking body is falling apart. My shoulders, my fingers, my knees, my ankles, to name just a few. I feel 100 when I try to heft my fat ass out of a chair and start to move. I could focus on the unfairness, the pain, the shit of the situation. I can't do that...I hate that feeling. I just thank God it isn't something really bad. My shit is life altering, but not life changing. Cancer could kill me. MS could cripple my body but leave my mind functioning. There are so many worse things out there...I tell myself this is in place of those and all of a sudden it's not so bad.

Your school work is hard as hell. Been there, done that. What do you have to look forward to afterwards? More f'ing work for the next 30 years or so. Yippee. Consider the alternative. You could be unemployed and on the dole. Is that what you want? Do you want to have to choose between a new frock or a loaf of bread? If the answer is yes, don't bother working. If the answer is no, find any job to start with. Make money, put it away, all the while thinking what you'd really like to be when you grow up. Work isn't a jail sentence. Oh sure, it can be, but it doesn't have to be. You'd be surprised how many years can pass by in a job that's only so so if you have the dream of something better. Maybe after 30 years that 'something better' never materialized...but now you can retire and poof! Your something better has arrived.

Think happy thoughts even when it's difficult to do so. It gets easier. I promise.

PS: Of course there are no me. I'm a pixie! I shall sprinkle you with pixie dust and all will be well.

CactusFreek said...

Miss ya :o/

arielcircleofnine said...

just wanted to say Ive been thinking about ya and send you a hug!

Anonymous said...

Hey buddy where'd ya go?? Sniff...sniff...come back to us...we miss you....

((Super Huge Hugs))

Hope your doing well:)

CactusFreek said...

Still miss ya :o/